Each culture is different and many times, to leave, you have to adapt and change small habits. Muslim culture is for many one of the most difficult to access. Nail young venezuelan, married to a muslim, recounted the requests his partner made to be together. This verbal agreement between the two was harshly questioned on the networks and various TikTok users advised him to flee this relationship.
The Arab Chamaa TikTok user, who usually shows what her life is like next to a Muslim, shared a video with different points on which they must agree on the start of the relationship. This series of conditions which, according to her, “They are not for everyone” outraged users of this social network.
One of the things I had to do was do not greet anyone with a kiss on the cheek. She agreed but asked him to do the same with the women. So on this point they quickly agreed. However, the second topic was the most questioned: “Since he only has men on social networks, He demanded that I only have girls on Facebook and Instagram. Which wasn’t difficult because I only have girls in my social network,” she explained.
Although in different videos she kept referring to the things she changed to be with her boyfriend, she clarified that he didn’t force her to use the hijab (veil) or changing the style of dress.
Given the comments’ insistence that Muslims cannot date, the young woman clarified in another video that while courtship does not exist in Islam, theirs is a relationship in which they are engaged and are going to get married and for her it is being a boyfriend. .
“Oh no, I ran away from there”, “red flags in everything” “I run, far, far from someone who wants to forbid me something”, “Danger, danger”, “If it starts like this, I don’t want to imagine what happens over time”, “Sounds very toxic”, “Prison”, “Agreement to truncate your freedom. How beautiful…”, “Don’t you have uncles, cousins in the networks? This is crazy,” were some of the comments on the post.
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